WHY IS THIS HAPPENING ?

As you know, I am a fan of Neale Donald Walsch's books.
http://www.nealedonaldwalsch.com/
In one of his daily emails, he says that "Why is this happening?" is the most useless question in the Universe.
Instead, a good question is:  What?  As in "what do I choose now?"

Next time your first re-action to an event is "Why" ............ change your response to "What" ......... as in "what do I choose now."